Trends to Try for Spring ’25

The fashion industry offers up many, many new trends each year especially during the Spring and Fall seasons. It’s impossible to keep up with all of them and it wouldn’t be authentic for you to try to wear them all. Should you even try to follow them? In a nutshell: yes. And the reason is that purchasing a few trending pieces a few times per year will keep your wardrobe looking current and fresh. A little at a time goes a long way towards building a stylish, interesting and unique-to-you closet. Here are four trends that can easily be incorporated into many different style profiles.

Think pink

Each season there are specific trending colors. This Spring, pale pink is having a moment (for both women and men—I love a pink shirt on guys and have added choices to the board below!). Other popular colors you’ll see in stores this season are shades of green and bright blue. The Pantone color of the year is Mocha Mousse (a warm neutral). That’s a wide variety of trendy colors! I’ve chosen to recommend pale pink because it mixes so well with both neutrals, white and black. Even choosing a pale pink accessory this Spring will update your entire look. Click the image below then scroll through to shop these and many more pink pieces that have caught my eye.

shoes n bags

Accessories are a great way to integrate trendy pieces into your wardrobe—high impact, but less of a commitment than garments. The slim sneaker is a refreshing silhouette after many seasons of chunky, platform sneakers. Don’t discard those! They are still “in!” But by adding a slim sneaker into the mix, you have the option of updating many different outfits already living in your closet. This same idea goes for bag charms. They are delightful and you can purchase them at all price points. Add just one to your bag if your style tends to be more classic. Add a whole bunch if your look is more eclectic, bohemian or artsy. What a fun way to express yourself!

collage of womens fashion sneakers with a slim silhouette in neutral colors

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women's handbags with charms made of beads, ribbons, hearts or teddy bears

They’re calling classic a trend

Having been a J.Crew (catalog!) fan since my college years, I find the Coastal Prep trend to be a classic look. Having said that, if you haven’t worn a pair of boat shoes in a minute, this is the season to do so. Wear them with a skort and cute sweater as the weather gets warmer. Lean into the preppy vibe and color stories that evoke the sea, the sand, summertime and puffy white clouds. You can wear this trend head to toe or mix one or two of these pieces with other styles to create a ‘preppy with a twist’ vibe.

pearl earrings, white jeans, quilted jacket, boat shoes in blue, white and neutral tones

last thought

Look at your favorite pieces in the closet and use those as guidelines for which trend will work best for you. And, of course, call me if I can help you one-on-one!

Positive Wardrobe Strategies for the New Year

Focusing on clothing, fashion, your closet and wardrobe can bring a sense of order and positivity during turbulent times. Here are a few ideas for how to approach getting dressed each day to bring you confidence and joy. Before you start shopping for new pieces or avoid shopping altogether, consider the following ideas.

Focus on your basics

Wardrobe essentials differ based on each person’s lifestyle—for everyday, you may need classic work blouses/pants or much more casual separates such as t-shirts/sweaters/jeans. Whatever your style, now is the time to update those basics and make sure your closet is filled with modern fabrications and multiple silhouettes of the building blocks of your wardrobe.

Review the Trends

Each season the fashion industry offers us new trends (animal print always seems to be “new” LOL). Read up on what’s truly new for Spring ’25 and choose those that best fit your personal style. Purchasing a few trendy pieces ensures that your basic wardrobe items look current and modern. I will have lots of specific suggestions for you in next month’s newsletter but for now here’s my cheat-sheet of favorites!

Look at your Calendar

Travel or special dates/occasions can sneak up on us. It’s a good strategy to think through the next few months and plan now for any outfits you’ll need. Milestone birthday for you or a friend? Upcoming travel? Work presentation? Imagine how you’ll feel on the day and make sure your closet is prepared.

I’m always grateful to be able to help my clients feel good about themselves, relieve a bit of stress/decision-making and inject good aesthetics and beauty into their lives. Thank you to everyone who calls on me for 1:1 sessions—this work makes me so happy and gives me a positive focus during tough times.

There are so many worthy California wildfire-relief organizations which you can support, but here is one of my favorites: Altadena Girls started by a fourteen year old Angeleno with a special focus on young girls.

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Maria’s Holiday Survival Guide

Here are few ideas from me to you for not only surviving the holidays, but actually enjoying them. Use these outfit templates, gift guides and self-care ideas to help you through the next few weeks.

Put Yourself at the top of your list

During this busy time, it’s typically women who drive the whole train—from hosting to gifting to cooking, traveling and decorating. Schedule in 30 minute breaks throughout your day—I actually put them in my calendar or set a reminder on my phone. A short guided meditation (or nap ☺️) is so refreshing and also so easy to skip. Take care of you, so that you can take care of everyone and everything else. Use the Do Not Disturb feature on your phone for 30 minutes, go for a walk outside (not a workout, just a walk), read one chapter of your favorite holiday book or daily devotional. You get the picture: 2 or 3 short breaks throughout your day can make a big difference this time of year. Recently, I’ve been doing some yoga right before bed—and if I wake up in the middle of the night with my head racing (anyone else? ha ha!), I get up and work on whatever’s on my mind knowing that I’ll catch up on my rest during my breaks the next day.

Plan Your Outfits and Repeat Them

Create a “Holiday Section” in your closet—anything that is festive, party-ready, red/green/blue/silver/gold. This can be a temporary section and a mix of tops, bottoms, dresses, jackets, casual and formal pieces. Look at your calendar and make note of the days/events when you want to feel really pulled together. Create a few holiday go-to outfits in your mind—or better yet, in real life! If you’ve read these blog posts regularly, you know I like to photograph my ideas—for myself and my clients—including shoes, handbags, accessories and undergarments so that getting dressed is extremely easy. And if you love an outfit, repeat it! Using clothing to feel good is a big part of what my work is all about—so when you feel like you can conquer the world in an outfit, please wear it over and over and over.

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Choose Your Gifts and Activities Wisely

Remember that the most important part of all of this is being with the people you love. Every gift doesn’t have to be perfect and every meal or party doesn’t have to be bigger and better than last year. I’m talking to myself here, too! Think of what your family members and friends actually like to eat, do, wear—and give them what they want even if that differs from the ideas you have in your head.

Click on the images below for some ideas for Gen Z girls and Teen Boys & Men (and click here for your mom/sister/best friend).

I’m wishing you all a wonderful holiday season—and if the holidays are really, really hard for you, please click here for professional resources and help. You’re not alone ❤️

How to Get that Southern California Look

I was in sunny SoCal recently and saw so many cute brands and pieces on my shopping excursions. I thought you might like to know of them, too—for yourself or for holiday gifts. I shopped in Montecito, Laguna, Newport, Manhattan Beach, Malibu, Brentwood and Pacific Palisades. The Westside of LA will always have my heart, but the Eastside has some really cool shopping these days, too. I’ll save that exploration for my next trip! 

For now, enjoy my Cali snapshots interspersed with items I saw IRL in little boutiques and for which I was able to find good links. From the Hobie Surf Shop in Laguna to Wright’s in Manhattan Beach, from M.Fredric and Kelly Slater’s Outerknown in the Malibu Country Mart to Elyse Walker in the Palisades Village—here is some seriously good California style for you!

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Best Dressed Wedding Guest (over age 40!)

When you’re the Mother of the Bride or Groom, choosing a dress is a whole THING. But when you’re an invited guest there’s a lot that goes into choosing the right outfit, too. You want to dress to the level expected but still be comfortable; you want to look and feel great but also keep in mind where you fit into the group (someone very close to the couple or someone more removed). Here are some tips for choosing the correct dress for the dress code and for your body and budget.

If the dress code is black tie or black tie optional that is helpful to determine the level of formality. Gowns work but so do midi-length dresses in elegant fabrics. I find that many of my clients prefer one silhouette to the other and then choose their preferred style no matter the venue or location. For example, if you’re not a fan of a full-length gown, then a midi dress (hits at mid-calf) in a lovely fabric is equally appropriate and elegant.

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Consider colors appropriate to the season

And don’t be afraid to be an “outfit repeater” and wear the same dress to different weddings. Most people find that weddings come in clusters—many friends get married around the same time, then their children get married within a few years of each other, etc. This isn’t always the case, but don’t feel you have to buy a brand new dress for each occasion.

Do keep in mind…

where you fit into the group. If you are quite close to the couple, then a knock-out and somewhat attention-getting dress is appropriate. If you’re a work colleague or someone a bit removed, then wearing a loud color or very noticeable piece may not feel like the right choice.

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CONSIDER THE VENUE AND OVERALL LOCATION

Will the wedding take place at a church and then move to a preppy yacht club? Will it be boho chic in a barn? Sophisticated chic in a city hotel ballroom? Those details determine how ‘formal’ the options are. Many of my clients are choosing lovely florals or bright colors in silk, brocade or satin. Again, choose a color and pattern based on your own preferences. A refined fabric will make even a T-shirt dress appropriate for a formal wedding.

Consider your favorite (and not so favorite) parts of your body

Do you love your legs and want to show them off? Then something shorter or high-low in an elegant fabric will work for a formal wedding. Do you prefer to cover your arms? When shopping, select a variety of dresses with sleeves from which to choose. No need to try to make a sleeveless dress work even if you love the rest of it. Are you tired of feeling like a sausage in shapewear? 😊 Then choose dresses with volume throughout the bodice or side-shirring or an A-line silhouette. Do you love your shoulders and arms and feel very fit? Then highlight all the good parts with a more body-conscious cut keeping in mind that balance makes for the most elegant effect: bare on top? Then a little length on bottom will balance that out. Super short mini-dress? Then a bit more coverage (even if it’s sheer) on top will create a balanced and elegant look.

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When in doubt, choose an lbd

An elegant black dress always works! An LBD (little black dress) doesn’t really have to be little. It can be a gown or midi-length. I suggest choosing a black dress with some type of interesting design element: a beautiful chiffon sleeve, for example. Or a bit of beading or lace or draping—these details ensure that basic black is anything but basic and you can wear it over and over again.

The Price point…

is completely up to you. The examples I’ve given above start around $150 and go up from there.

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Be mindful of your shoes

There is NO NEED to wear pretty shoes that hurt your feet! A wedge, block-heel or platform tends to be much more comfortable than a single-sole stiletto (and much better on grass or outdoors for weddings with that component). Kitten heels are always an elegant choice. Take a look at your formal shoes and update these if you haven’t in a while. Black or a metallic is always appropriate for a formal wedding.

final thought:

If you’ve given attention to your outfit in the ways I describe above, then you really can’t get it wrong. So many women worry that they’re not dressing exactly as the dress code on the invitation suggests. And often those descriptions can be hard to decipher and visualize and realize. Remember: if you look good, then you’ll feel good and then you’ll do good. Own your style and your well-considered choices; then your outfit will be perfect. Go confidently to enjoy the celebration of love! There’s nothing quite like that public declaration of two people choosing to commit their lives to one another 💗

Defining Your Personal Style

Your personal style is a unique interpretation and manifestation of who you are. It’s a powerful communication tool. As Miuccia Prada has said, “Fashion is instant language.” 

So, what are your clothes saying? The fun part of fashion and getting dressed each day is that you get to decide the answer to that question.

These images are just a few examples of different style profiles. From left to right: tailored, romantic, casual polished.

Here are some fun questions to ponder in order to define your personal style. There are no wrong answers! Let your imagination go. You may choose multiple styles, words, adjectives, looks; or, you may always land on the same definitions. It’s all good 😊 Let me know what you come up with!

  • How do you want to feel in your clothes?

    • examples: comfortable, confident, creative

  • How do you want other people to feel when they see you?

    • calm, energized, curious, certain (there are many more possibilities!)

  • What messages do you want to send about yourself?

    • I’m reliable and relatable

    • I love fashion, art, music

    • I’m traditional

    • I’m an artist at heart

    • Something else entirely—fill in the blank yourself

  • What adjectives most resonate when you describe yourself?

    • Edgy, classic, eclectic, preppy

    • Minimalist, rocker, bohemian, girl-next-door

  • Do you want to send consistent messages or do you enjoy changing things up?

    • No matter the circumstance, I like to dress in the same styles

    • Depending on where and with whom, I like to dress in different styles

some style profiles from which to choose:

  • What are the symbolic meanings of the garments you love the most?

    • For example: pearls = Ladylike and silver grommets = Rock n’ Roll

  • What is the physical experience of wearing your favorite clothes?

    • Clothing has been proven to make us perform better. If you haven’t read about Enclothed Cognition yet, check it out here.

    • When it’s my favorite, I actually forget about what I’m wearing!

  • How would you describe the clothing you wear on a daily basis?

    • Intentional, whatever fits, workout gear

Here are examples of preppy style, classic style and bohemian style.

some personal adjectives from which to choose:

If you’ve done this before and feel that you are certain of your personal style profile, I suggest revisiting these questions every few years. As the Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, “The only thing that is constant is change.”  (Apparently, I’m really into quotes for this post LOL).

For those of you who know me personally, you will not be surprised to learn some of my answers: Eclectic, creative, classic, approachable. I truly have fun with my clothing and love helping others to do the same!

here are just a few recent client outfits to inspire you!

Thanks for reading! 😊

Your Summer Wardrobe Checklist

Slowing down and making life feel more relaxed and simple is my goal for summertime. Here are some things I’m doing for myself right now that may help you to get into the summer mode, too.

Cleaning and Storing the Fall/Winter Stuff

I’ve been helping clients with these tasks for the past couple of months and now it’s time to make sure I’ve done all of these things in my own closet:

  • hand wash cashmere sweaters and depill with my new favorite little gadget. I use a delicate soap and then after rinsing completely, squeeze the water out (don’t wring) and then lay the sweater on a bath towel, roll it up and press water out. Lay sweaters flat to dry on a drying rack then store in clear plastic bin with cedar bricks.

  • take any wool sweaters/blazers that really got a LOT of use to the dry cleaner. If there are pieces that I haven’t worn often, I hang them on a rolling rack (outside of my closet) to air out for a day or two before storing in my off-season closet.

  • remove any PLASTIC coverings when I get the dry cleaning returned. Use cloth coverings if a garment needs extra protection. The plastic can actually damage clothing if left on for an extended period of time as moisture can get trapped within the plastic bag.

  • wash all my heavier denim/dark wash jeans. I wash them inside out, throw in the dryer for 5 minutes to steam, then hang them to finish drying (still inside out). Once completely dry, I store them in my off-season closet—when I’m ready to wear them next Fall, it’s always so nice to see them inside out and remember that this means they are clean!

  • take any boots/heavier shoes to the cobbler this month. Gives them plenty of time to fix the heels, shine and condition the leather and I won’t miss them at all in the next few weeks. This is also a great time to clean out any dust on shoe shelves and containers in my closet.

Preparing Outfits for Upcoming Weddings, Parties, Trips

If you read these emails in any type of regular fashion, you already know that planning ahead is my best suggestion. Try everything on ahead of time—it really won’t take that long. Make sure the undergarments work, the handbags are there (one client just realized her favorite navy clutch was borrowed by her daughter and it now lives in another city!), the shoes are still comfortable and your cute Fourth of July sweater is still in good shape! This will alleviate last minute panic-shopping ☺️

  • Look at the calendar and really think about when I’ll want something special:

    • Fourth of July

    • Weddings or Parties

    • Trips

Here are just a few ideas for you. Click to shop or create similar outfits by using pieces you already own.

Confirming Everyday Go-to Pieces are Ready and Waiting

I like to go through my everyday garments and make sure things are still looking good and fitting well. In the summer, my daily outfit is typically a dress—more casual for everyday or a bit more polished for seeing a client. But I also like to have lightweight pants and T-shirts on hand for those days I just don’t want to wear a dress. To be honest, my body has changed a lot in the last couple of years (can anyone out there relate? 🙋🏻‍♀️) and so I’ve had to update many of my everyday pieces recently.

  • Release items that don’t fit as well as they used to (including many long-time favorites. It’s hard in the moment, but feels so good to know I’m not trying to wear things that aren’t working for me anymore. Forward is the only way to go!)

  • Buy updated replacements for these items so I feel prepared. Don’t put this off! For me that’s meant: updated everyday dresses and cute, lightweight pants and T-shirts.

  • Speaking of T-shirts, make sure my white T-shirts are actually white (release the ones that aren’t—even if they are some of my favorites)

  • Update everyday shoes. Clean sneakers and fun variations on flip-flops and Teva-style sandals are simple ways to make everyday summer clothing feel stylish yet still easy.

My best recommendation to you in terms of everyday dressing is to decide what your signature look is for summer and make sure a good amount of those items are ready to go. If you’re mostly in bathing suits during the day, make sure your cover-ups are updated, fresh and stylish. If you’re in an office during the summer, make sure your ‘office cardigan’ or lightweight blazer is updated for the freezing A/C. Whatever that important daily outfit is for you, make sure you have good options now so that you can get through summer feeling positive and relaxed.

As always, thanks for reading these letters! Wishing you all a great summer ☀️

Spring Trend Report: Accessories

One of the best ways to add current trends into your wardrobe is by using accessories thoughtfully. This season, there are a handful of trends that are very wearable and will update any style profile whether you consider yourself preppy, boho, minimalist or classic. I’m breaking it down into three categories for you and giving examples of each. As always, click on any photo to shop.

BOws 🎀

This feminine touch is everywhere this season and a great way to look current with a small amount of effort. From jewelry to shoes to handbags, here are some great bow choices for you. And with many thanks to my friend and super-talented Greenwich-based jewelry designer Lisa Leavy, I can offer you a 15% discount on her items site-wide through the month of April. Use CODE Maria15 (hello, Mother’s Day gifts!). Thanks, Lisa 💗 🎀

Sheer + sparkle

One of the most original trends happening this Spring is the sheer and/or sparkly and/or mesh shoe trend. From heels to flats, there are so many choices for you to add into your wardrobe. The flats especially are intended as an everyday, wear-with-everything kind of accessory. Have fun with these! People will notice!

oversized

Sunglasses, chunky jewelry and ultra-big handbags are another fun trend that you can easily add into your closet this season. Oversized clothing has been on-trend for a while now, but can be hard for all body types to wear. These accessories will always fit! I can’t overemphasize the current trend of ‘puffy hearts’—scoop them up while you can ♡

Final thoughts

Adding one or two of these fun pieces into your wardrobe will refresh so many outfits. If you want suggestions for Spring clothing trends, then here are a few of my favorites: the Ice Blue trend, sweet Polka Dots on everything; and for all my East Coast girlies, Preppy Style is having a moment! Lean into it with these great polos ✨

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How to Wear the Clothes You Already Have

Giving some thought and attention to your clothing is a gift to yourself. Clothing communicates so much about who we are, who we think we are, how we want others to feel about us—feeling current, comfortable and authentic (and then forgetting about your clothes) is the best way to face the day. But often I hear clients wonder, “Why don’t I wear more of what I have?” Here are my thoughts on that—

Number 1) There is just too much in your closet. The closet feels overwhelming, so you just wear a few pieces on rotation because you know they work.

Number 2) When you’re trying to grow and elevate your personal style into something new, people tend to comment!

Number 3) You’re buying items because they were on sale OR an influencer/social media post made it look great.

different women wearing fashionable outfits created by a wardrobe stylist

↑ JUST A FEW OF MY BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, SMART, KIND CLIENTS WEARING THEIR CLOTHES

So what to do?

Number 1 is fairly easy to fix: edit your closet (or get help from a professional—Hello! 👋🏼 I can help). Once you release the pieces that are not flattering, misshapen/damaged, out of date, and/or duplicates, then organize by color and season, it’s much easier to see what you have and put the outfits together on a daily basis. Giving yourself the gift of your own attention to this matter is so meaningful.

Number 2 is a bit trickier. I’ve found that when clients come to me looking to elevate their style and we do that successfully, sometimes the comments start coming. And often these are from people the closest to them (spouses, moms, kids) and they can be something like, “Why are you wearing that?” or “You have a lot of bracelets on!” I feel this happens because the new look is unfamiliar. Mom/wife/daughter looks different—does this mean she IS different? Unconsciously, the person making the comment may feel worried or discomfited. If you’ve ever found yourself in this situation, then the answer is something like, “I’m trying something new and I want to take some time to see how I like it. So far, it’s making me feel really good.”

Number 3 is a matter of really knowing yourself and making thoughtful purchases that don’t clog up the closet. Super-duper sale prices are sooooo tempting—buy carefully and make sure it really fits well and it’s something you will actually use. See an outfit on social media that you love? Really look at who is wearing it—do they have the same proportions as you? Same lifestyle? Can those shoes they are wearing really be worn outside on a daily basis (the fancy, bare shoes in winter always make me giggle! or the mom carrying a child on her hip while wearing stilettos 🤭) Mindful purchasing increases the likelihood of wearing what’s hanging in your closet.

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And bonus thought: give yourself permission to wear the good stuff! Pieces don’t have to be expensive to be considered the good stuff, but often those that are a bit more pricey can feel too precious to wear everyday. Carpe diem! You loved them when you bought them so please wear them until they “owe you nothing” as a recent client said to me! 💗

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How to Have Fun with Your Wardrobe While Traveling

This post isn’t about over-packing. It’s about enjoying clothing as a means of self-expression and how to do that out of a suitcase. My three principles of good packing still apply here: start with your shoes, use color stories, and plan your outfits in advance. But the idea is to really load up on different outfits so that you have lots of options while away. Lean into having fun, changing for different locations and activities and keeping it all organized as you go along.

The following photos are from a client who was going on a dreamy trip: Palma and Nice with a yacht trip in between. She needed lots of lunch and dinner outfits as well as day-tripping in both city and beach locations. We got it all into 2 checked bags and 1 carry-on!

All of this fit into two checked bags and one carry-on

Start with shoes

Look at your itinerary and imagine exactly what types of shoes you’ll want and what type you’ll need (often two different things!). Be practical—stilettos and cobblestone streets/sandy beaches don’t mix—but don’t sacrifice style. Start pulling options from your closet with the idea that you will edit some of the shoes out before you actually pack the bags.

Use Color Stories

Based on location, we created different color stories so this client could easily pull outfits based on which city she was in or when she was on the yacht (…’cause, you know, you gotta have Yacht Outfits!)

Plan Your Outfits in Advance

Try them on or lay them out. This is the time to add accessories and edit your shoe choices. The fewer pieces of jewelry, fewer handbags and fewer shoes you can use and re-use will make packing (and getting dressed each day of the trip) much easier. Then hang everything on a rolling rack for a few days. Have a think. Edit or add as needed.

here are a few pages from her lookbook:

We ended up with 36 pages of outfits not including workout gear and a couple lounge outfits. She looked and felt fabulous in each location of her trip (and still had a bit of room in her luggage so that some newly acquired pieces could make it home with her 🛍). Here are a few snapshots.

Loving clothes and loving shopping is such a personal choice and one of self-expression. If you do this naturally, then embrace it and enjoy it! If it doesn’t come so easily to you, then you can always pack in a more streamlined way using this formula: 5 tops + 3 bottoms + 2 dresses + 2 cardigans/jackets and 4 pairs of shoes = 7 days of vacation in a carry-on bag. If I can help, please don’t hesitate to reach out here.

one last tip: don’t forget plane/arrival outfits

Wearing layers on a plane is crucial, but again you don’t have to sacrifice style. And also keep in mind the details of your arrival day. It’s very helpful to have a fresh outfit in your carry-on for a quick ‘costume’ change as soon as you land.

☀️Buon viaggio, everyone ✈️

You're Gonna Need a Top Coat

Here is some guidance and inspiration so you don’t go out of your mind wearing the same black puffer for the next few months 😊

Remember to layer creatively

Layer under (use two coats!) or over (a rain poncho over a packable down jacket) as much as needed so that you stay 1) warm 2) dry and 3) happy for as long as you’re out in the elements.

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Make sure your outerwear is current

This means having a few options that are a bit oversized to accommodate the recent trend of exaggerated sleeves + shoulders on many tops, dresses and blazers.

woman's fashion outfit with blue jeans and an oversized sweater, black boots and hat and a tan faux shearling jacket with hood or a black and caramel reversible winter down coat

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Treat your coat closet the same way you’d approach any other section of your wardrobe

Curate it for variation so that you have options and are not wearing the exact same warm coat everyday and for every occasion for the next few months. Clean lines and classic colors are perfect for a work/office coat. Leather, shearling, and moto-detailing are perfect to wear into a city. Plaids and diamond-quilting are the right choices for days in the suburbs or country. And, do you have a date night/dressy coat? It’s always so sad to resort to an everyday coat over a great outfit for a special night or occasion. Lastly, if you’re up for high-energy vibes (and getting noticed) then choose a brightly patterned puffer or vest for everyday.

Choose clean lines and classic colors to wear to work

Wear pretty puffers on grey days—click to shop!

What about fur?

If you feel comfortable wearing real fur, then go for it! I know wearing fur elicits strong reactions but currently it’s having a moment (I don’t love the language being used around it—Mob Wife Aesthetic—derogatory in my opinion on many levels); however, the ideas of luxury, maximalism and ultra-femininity are worthy of upholding. Wearing a new or vintage fur in an updated, casual way can be really fun. Here are some images from the Instagram page @watchingnewyork for inspiration.

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A few things capturing my attention and feeding my creativity:

Holiday Wardrobe Heroes

Wardrobe heroes are those pieces that tick just the right boxes at just the right time and make every outfit ‘work.’ For the upcoming holidays, pull these types of pieces from your own closet or shop a few well-chosen items so that you have holiday wardrobe heroes at your fingertips throughout the season. Make a special ‘holiday’ section in your closet if that’s helpful for you to have all of these items in one place. Here are a few ideas for you!

statement tops + something black on bottom

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You can’t go wrong with a really special and festive piece on top and black on the bottom. Choose holiday colors and add some sparkle plus an interesting shoe. Create a few outfits around these special tops and wear them on repeat. These fit the bill from work holiday parties to festivities with family and friends.

Use the meal’s color palette

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You can’t go wrong with shades of brown and cranberry for Thanksgiving. Whether you’re with the jeans-n-sneakers crowd or at the dressy grown-ups table, wearing these colors will make Turkey Day feel more celebratory. Word to the wise: stretchy fabrics and loose jeans 😊

cozy days-n-dinners deserve holiday outfits too

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You can’t go wrong with a pretty sweater in holiday colors/graphics and easy pants that feel like pull-on pajamas or denim as stretchy as leggings. Finish with fun accessories. Don’t be afraid to lean into the colors of the season and wear to casual get-togethers, your kids’ school concerts, while gift shopping or just running errands. These cute pieces are guaranteed to boost your mood.

add some sparkle

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You can’t go wrong in metallics this season no matter which holidays you celebrate. This blue and silver color palette lends quiet elegance to any event, party or gathering—Hanukkah, Christmas or New Year’s Eve.

Red and Green (and gold and Plaid!)

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You can’t go wrong wearing red, green, gold or plaid on repeat throughout December. You can find items similar to these at any price point (and you probably already have a few in your own closet!). Remember your mission: Pick one or two pieces that say “Festive” and wear them over and over during the holidays. They become your signature pieces and then can be put away again until next year.

Good Jeans

I was recently asked to share my thoughts ‘all about jeans.’ When it comes to having good jeans (punny! I know!), I really think it’s about variety. If you look in your closet right now, do you have lots of jeans in the same color wash? or similar leg style? If yes, then your outfits will start to look the same even if you’re always wearing a different pair of jeans. Here are some specific strategies for knowing when to wear which style.

everyday light wash

Having a few pair of updated, current jeans for everyday running errands or casual lunch is important. Choose something shorter in length (so you don’t have to wear heels but can if you want to) and make sure you have both a variety of washes (colors) and leg shapes. Having a ‘bell curve’ of choices makes sense—one super skinny, a bunch with a straight leg and one fuller leg is a great ratio. More expensive is not necessarily better although typically you pay for what you get in terms of fabrication and style details. If you wear jeans often, then investing a bit of money into a few good pairs is a smart idea. And don’t forget that many of these styles are available in Tall and Petite sizes. Mother has started to offer Petites (!!) and is selling out so quickly. Add your name to the waitlist.

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INTERESTING DESIGN ELEMENTS

Casual dinner or elevated lunch jeans are important, too. Choose styles with interesting design elements for these occasions as well as dark denim straight leg silhouettes. Try on a variety of shoes/boots with these jeans to see what works best on you. More on that below.

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Going out jeans

And then you want some Going Out jeans for evenings, cocktails, dinners, parties and shows. These are typically longer in length so you can wear a heel and often (but not always) a darker wash. Again, try these on with ankle boots, heeled sandals and pumps. Keep leg silhouettes in mind here, too. A great skinny jean with pumps + blazer is a sophisticated evening look and so is a flared jean with Western boots and a pretty blouse.

in summary: variety IS The Spice of life!

Remember the key to a successful and stylish denim wardrobe is variety in colors (washes) and leg styles (silhouettes) and then taking some time in your own closet to decide which shoe works with which jean. Click here for more on that.

Fall Trends to Try

The trends that are capturing my attention this season are wearable classics—with a twist. Loafers and Mary Jane flats—interesting denim jackets—and brown plaid suiting that can be worn together or styled as separates (click here for inspo!). Refresh your Fall wardrobe with a few of these pieces, at any price point. Many are offered in Petite, Tall and Plus sizes as well. For just about everything from work to weekend, Elevated Casual is the dress code now which ensures you will get great cost-per-wear on these items.

Black Penny Loafers

I always put dimes in my black loafers and pennies in my oxblood pair—anyone else? Black loafers are having a moment, but can be worn forever. Wear the classic, low-heeled version with no-show socks or scrunchy white 80s socks like this. Wear the heels with wide leg pants or dresses-n-tights (way cooler than a traditional black pump with your day dresses!). Click here for Fall’s other shoe trend: Mary Jane flats.

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denim jackets

These are not the typical Levi’s trucker style but rather adorned, quilted, ladylike, cropped or oversized. These lightweight jackets are the perfect updated layering pieces to transition through seasons. Again, you can splurge or save and come away with great style.

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The brown plaid suit

The colors and fabrics of these pieces just scream “Autumn!” and can be worn in so many ways for years to come. Combine the pants with a simple sweater and loafer for a classic look or a hoodie + sneaker for an elevated take on athleisure. Wear the pieces together with a black T-shirt and flat shoes or mix the masculine tailored silhouette with a feminine silk charmeuse camisole underneath. Again, any price point will get you the look you want. And I love the size-inclusiveness that is becoming de rigueur (from Petites to Tall to Plus).

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mark your calendars

I have three fun presentations coming up this Fall and would love to have you attend! Two are here in Greenwich and one is a virtual event so everyone has options.

SAT OCTOBER 14 at SECOND CONGREGATIONAL CHURCH, GREENWICH “Capsule Wardrobes: Simplicity, Style & Sustainability” 10am to 11am Click here to rsvp

THURS OCTOBER 19 at WILTON CONTINUING EDUCATION (VIRTUAL) “Style School: Aligning and Defining Your Personal Style” 6:30pm to 7:30pm Click here to purchase a ticket

THURS NOVEMBER 2 at NICHOLS MD OF GREENWICH “Get Red Carpet Travel-Ready” 6:30pm to 7:30pm This is a panel discussion with beauty, fashion, luxury travel and accommodations specialists. Moderated by Sue Moretti Bodson of Emboss LLC. Click here to rsvp

Summer Wardrobe Work

The summer months tend to slow down in terms of big closet projects for my clients and me. Most recently, I’ve had women reaching out asking for help with and support for members of their families. See a variety of projects below. I love sharing what I’ve been up to in hopes that it gives you all inspiration for your own wardrobe plus a bit of fun, restful distraction. (Read “Darwin Was a Slacker” here—good reasons to prioritize rest in our daily schedules!).

Additionally, I love to assist Boys and Girls Club of Greenwich each August by offering my styling and shopping suggestions to their members and guests for the annual benefit in September. This year’s theme, Havana Nights, is broad enough that everyone can find something fun and high-energy to add into a late summer wardrobe. Whether you’re attending this party or not, I hope you find some color inspo at least and a full outfit at best to use for yourself. If you’d like more info about the annual benefit or to donate to Boys and Girls Club of Greenwich, please click here. And click here to watch a 2-minute video of the Chanel Resort Show 2016/2017 on the streets of Havana. Tilda Swinton, Gisele, Ana de Armas, Vanessa Paradis: Fabulous!

And then, there’s Italian fashion, color and light. Those are always inspirational whether it’s current-day or circa 1500 (see below; flat Mary Janes happen to be trending this Fall as apparently they were way back in the 16th century according to the frescoes in the Piccolomini Library that I visited recently). Art, fashion, food and friendship: my Italy trip in June was truly a dream come true!

I hope you enjoy the following collection of ideas. I’ve added links wherever applicable so click on the photos. Happy Summer, everyone!

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How to Successfully Online Shop for Clothes

Here are my best tips for online shopping and how I do it for my clients.

⏱ First of all: set a timer. Seriously. Give yourself a limit and take a break when you hit it. Now for the actual shopping:

Use the filters (but not too much!)

This is where I start when I’m shopping for a client. I filter for garment type and size right off the bat. For example, if I’m looking for dresses and tops and shoes for the same client, I choose one to start with and filter for that. So, let’s say I start with dresses in size 10. I may click on those two filter boxes and end up with 1800 results! The next choices I’d make are typically sleeve length and overall dress length. Then color—but be careful here. Sometimes over-filtering for color or a specific style of dress (A-line for example) can leave me with only 18 choices. Not enough! What I call ‘pink’ and what the online retailer calls ‘pink’ may be different. So pay attention to the number of results and if they feel too skimpy, remove one or more of your filters.

Visualize the fabrics and silhouettes

Body measurements are helpful for online shopping but, in my opinion, the shape of the garment (the silhouette) and fabric content is of utmost importance. For example, an oversized shirt or top doesn’t necessarily need a bust measurement to fit well. Knowing if the fabric will drape well or be clingy or be more structured and stiff is important to your comfort with the garment especially because many items are still shown on very, very tall very, very thin models. Read the fabric composition of each item. If you’re not sure what fabric is what, check the tags on the inside of some of your favorite pieces hanging in your closet.

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One important measurement to know: the rise of your pants. Sometimes I want a mid-rise jean, sometimes a high-rise trouser—those measurements are different for everyone, but important to know before you order any garment online. Again, check your favorite pants or jeans. You can measure the rise yourself if the tag isn’t clear.  Lay your jeans flat and use a tape measure from the top of your waistband where the button is to the where all four seams connect at the crotch. A bit separately from this point: knowing your unique body shape and proportions is extremely helpful. While some stylists talk about “apple” shapes vs. “rectangles” I feel it’s much more individualized than that.  Two people can both have a rectangular shape,  but one is 5’9” with a narrow frame and the other is 5’4” with a wider silhouette. A one-hour virtual session with me can give you all the info you need about this. Reach out if you want to know more about this service.

Read the comments (with a grain of salt)

Other people’s comments can be helpful, but remember to filter them through your own personal lens. What others think is a problem may not be for you. Focus on fabrics, silhouettes and your personal style. Sometimes people just like to complain (thus a negative comment) so don’t let that dissuade you if everything else about the item ticks your own boxes.

Check size guides from each retailer

They really are different from each other (size Medium is a 6-8 at some places and an 10-12 at others, for example) so carefully reading these is extremely helpful before ordering online. Sometimes, I will order two sizes of the same garment or shoe to be able to choose at home, but I try to avoid over-ordering. I know returns can be a real problem especially in terms of sustainability issues. But it can be very helpful to try the item on, back to back, in different sizes.

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Know your fabrics and silhouettes! 100% cotton means no stretch. Packable fabric can mean more clingy. Tall sizes are not only longer in the arms and legs, but also in the torso/rise. And the opposite is true for Petite sizing—it’s not just shorter legs.

Shipping Costs + Returns

Always check the return policy. Note how many days you’ll have to decide (set a reminder on your calendar if you tend to forget and miss these windows). Additionally, I make sure nothing I order online is marked Final Sale—unless it’s a duplicate/update of something I already have (for example, my favorite Tretorn sneakers that have fit me in the same way in the same size since high school I would definitely order Final Sale). There are a very small handful of vendors who charge large shipping or return ‘restocking fees’—typically, I scroll to the bottom of any website to find return info and read all of these details before ordering. I found the cutest jacket yesterday but the shipping charge was $18.67 (what?!? random and pricey) for orders under $150 plus I would have had to cover the cost of the return shipping. I didn’t love the jacket that much!

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There are always more things one can consider when online shopping, but these are my top suggestions for you. Let me know which of these you already do; or if you try some of these and end up having better success than you’ve had in the past. 

If online shopping still feels just onerous to you, give me a buzz and I can do the shopping for you 😊 🛍 💛 maria@mariaturkel.com

Spring Trends to Try

Each season it seems there are endless new trends to keep up with in fashion. While it’s fun to add something new and unexpected to your wardrobe, it can be hard to know which of the trends really works and makes sense for you. I’ve chosen 3 that feel relevant, modern and easily adaptable no matter if your style is preppie or edgy, boho or ladylike, or anything in between. The best way to determine which is a good choice for you personally is to look at some of your favorite pieces currently living in your closet and choose something similar in silhouette or function but within one of these three trend lines.

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Silver shoes and bags

Choose a silver slide for your dinner outfits. Add a trendy silver handbag into the mix. Really go for it with a silver Western style boot. Or safely try this trend with a silver sneaker or ballet flat.

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Highly-designed Denim

A jean jacket with interesting elements. Two toned jeans. A denim sandal, boot or shoe. A maxi-length jean skirt. Any of these are a great way to incorporate this trend into your wardrobe this season.

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Sculptural Earrings

The scale tends to be bigger. The components are mostly metals but you can add a pearl in there, too. Crumpled are super cool.

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Have fun with these trends—and remember you can spend a little or a lot. Click on any photo to shop a range of prices or just for inspiration. Let me know if you try any of these!

How to Pack for One Week Away

Whether you’re headed hot or cold or both, here are some travel wardrobe tips to make packing easier for you.

  1. Visualize what you’ll be doing each day. Note any specific needs, i.e. hiking boots or fancy dinner outfits.

  2. Start with your shoes. For one full week, aim for 4 or 5 pairs of shoes. Wear the biggest, heaviest on your travel day so they don’t take up room in your suitcase.

  3. Going Warm? Then at least 4 swimsuits and cover-ups. Don’t forget beach accessories likes hats, flip flops, visors, beach/pool bags—again picture yourself at your location and imagine what you’ll want to have on the day.

  4. Going Cold? These garments tend to be more bulky and take up more space in the suitcase so choose wisely. Maximize each piece by using it in at least two outfits. Again, visualize where you’ll be and what you’ll need. Don’t forget all the extras like warm, cozy socks or tights and base layers.

  5. Pull out all the pieces you’d like to pack at least 4 days before you leave. I like to hang it all on a rack or you can lay it out on a bed. Once you see it all, focus on a color story. Edit out pieces that don’t fall within your chosen colors. Don’t forget to add in accessories like jewelry, hangbags and scarves to finish multiple outfits.

  6. Let this all “simmer” for a few days. You may think of something else you need during this time. Or decide there are items you don’t need to pack after all.

  7. A day before you travel, use the rolling technique to pack up your suitcase. Shoes go in first and then roll all other garments around them. I roll my clothes very simply, but if you want to go next level on the rolling, here’s more info on that.

travel wardrobe heroes

There are certain pieces that just “make” every outfit. Here are a few suggestions for you. The wrap can help in arctic A/C dining rooms as well as snowy walks when worn as a scarf (it can also be used as a throw blanket—and each sale supports Breast Cancer Awareness 💗). The over the knee boots can be worn with maxi- or mini-dresses or with leggings tucked in. When paired with a statement earring and handbag, the pretty sandals turn any beach-y dress into a dinner outfit. You get the picture—click on the photo for shoppable links.

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And for even more suggestions and tips…

…when it comes to traveling/packing, see some of my prior blog posts here and here.

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Color versus Neutrals

One choice out of the many we make when getting dressed is when to wear color and when to wear neutrals. Different tones “say” different things. Wearing color in a professional setting may be the area of life in which you want to devote the most thought on how you will “come across” when wearing color versus wearing neutrals. 

Remember that professional doesn’t have to mean working in a traditional, 9 to 5 office on the daily. It can be leading a volunteer group once a week, sitting on a non-profit board, meeting one-on-one with a client, or running errands as a local small business owner who may bump into potential clients. Here are some guidelines for helping you decide on and control your message.

What do you want to express?

Neutrals equal restrained, sophisticated, a bit unknowable, serious, calming and confident. Colors make you memorable, assertive, approachable, open, even playful and friendly.

Questions to consider:

What is your role and position?—and this can change slightly on a regular basis depending upon your daily tasks. Sitting at your desk most of the day? Meeting with potential clients? Meeting with long time clients? Are you leading the group? Are you receiving instructions? Are you the expert? Is your field ultra competitive? Or more collaborative?

ONe more thought:

Wearing mostly navy or black at work can look like a uniform and as seniority rises your unique personality and skill sets should stand out rather than blend into a uniformed background. Be memorable in a positive way as you move up through the ranks.

and start to look for this color everywhere

“Pantone’s Color of The Year, Viva Magenta, vibrates with vim and vigor. It is a shade rooted in nature descending from the red family and expressive of a new signal of strength. Viva Magenta is brave and fearless, a pulsating color whose exuberance promotes a joyous and optimistic celebration, writing a new narrative”—so says the Pantone website! Strength, bravery and newness—all sound good to me. Here are some simple ways to wear it.

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How to Look Young

In general, do you have tips for presenting a youthful appearance?

I was asked this question during a virtual styling presentation and I think it hits to the heart of what many people feel: the desire to look modern and current without looking like you’re trying too hard and definitely not feeling ridiculous in clothing that reads “too young.” 

In my experience, a simple way to achieve a youthful appearance is to update your basics on a regular basis. Nothing says out of touch more than dated garments and older clothing fabrics and combinations.

Here are 3 guidelines for achieving this

1) Determine what “basics” means to you. Most people think of T-shirts + jeans or trousers and sweaters as basics. This may be true for you but depending on your lifestyle—what you do every day—your definition of “basics” may be more expansive. Don’t forget shoes and handbags and also workout gear and leggings when updating your basics.

2) Just start—don’t overthink the shopping part of this. Start buying updated pieces a bit at a time and by category. Let’s take the denim category as an example: you may feel that you have great basic jeans, but if you haven’t bought anything new for a few seasons, then your silhouettes and fabrics are going to start to feel dated. Adding in one or two new pairs of jeans each year ensures that your wardrobe and your everyday look stays updated and youthful. This doesn’t mean you have to stop wearing your older jeans—though you may want to once you feel how great a new pair of denim wears on a daily basis. Adding new, basic garments (jeans, T-shirts, sneakers, sweaters) into the rotation keeps everything else looking fresh. 

3) Re-style your favorites. If you have items that are many seasons old but still in great shape and make you feel great when wearing, then in your mind move them to the ‘classic’ category. Here’s an example: you have a fabulous black blazer (this definitely qualifies as a basic). It’s from the early 00’s but looks and feels great on you. You don’t wear blazers often but when you need it, it’s a great go-to piece so why buy another? You always wear it the same way—with trousers also from the early 00’s or any other piece that is not from a relatively current season. That’s going to look dated. Instead, pair it with some updated jeans or a new midi-length skirt or cropped faux leather trousers. Think of it as vintage (in the best way) and highlight its specialness by pairing it with newer items. Re-styling this piece is a great way to keep using it while still looking relevant and modern, i.e. youthful.

I’ve added several boards of basics onto my Virtual Storefront (including Petite and Tall sizes!) and you can click the image below to shop it as well.

Image of wardrobe basics including jeans, loafers, a tote bag, cashmere turtleneck and wool blazer

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Final Thought:

I notice that people can get caught up in the idea of classic pieces. For example, they think “I spent a lot of money on this” or “This is a classic silk blouse that should go with everything” but for some reason they aren’t wearing the items. If you’re not wearing your pieces and you can’t figure out how to re-style them, then let them go. Focus on what your lifestyle calls for right now and dress for that rather than any kind of “shoulds” or rules of what is a great and classic piece.

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Want some help with all of this? Give me a buzz! A short session with me either virtually or in person can give you lots of new information and ideas of how to look and feel great while wearing the things you love. Happy New Year!